Joe Gray
Joe A. Gray, of Syracuse, Indiana, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, July 27, 2025, at the age of 91.
Joe was born on March 18, 1934, in Wolf Lake, Indiana, to Ralph and Bernice (Skills) Gray. He graduated from Cromwell High School, and on September 11, 1955, married the love of his life, Monetta Zorn. Together, they spent 67 beautiful years building a life rooted in love, faith, and service, raising seven children in Kosciusko County.
Joe was a hardworking man who spent many years as a plumber before joining Syracuse Elementary School’s custodial staff. He also faithfully served the Wawasee Community Schools as a school bus driver for many years.
A devoted member of the Church of God, Joe was especially active in the Joy group and loved attending church camp meetings and revivals across Ohio and beyond. His relationship with Christ was the foundation of his life. He had a gift for making others feel seen, heard, and valued—always offering a warm smile and a quick-witted joke. He truly had a servant’s heart and was always ready to help by “fixing things,” whether that meant repairing a pipe or encouraging someone’s spirit.
Joe was known for his wisdom, his honesty, and his ability to offer advice that was thoughtful, unbiased, and grounded in love—even when it wasn’t what you wanted to hear. One of the most memorable things he shared was when asked to name his favorite moment in life. He responded, “It’s hard to say—some of the worst moments turned out to be the best, because of what I learned from them.” That perspective reflects the quiet strength and deep faith that defined his life.
He and Monetta shared a marriage that was a true example of love and commitment. Their home was a safe haven—filled with love, peace, and shenanigans—the kind that only comes from two people who deeply loved each other and lived to bring joy to others.
Joe loved traveling, whether it was to Church of God gatherings, to visit family, or on family trips to places like Canada for fishing, or vacations to Michigan, Mount Rushmore, Niagara Falls, Las Vegas, the Grand Canyon, and Denver. He deeply treasured time spent with his children, and grandchildren creating memories that will live on for generations.
Joe is survived by his children: Becky Gray of Parker City, Mark Gray of Etna Green, Dawn King of Goshen, Teresa Mann (Unknown), and Monaca (Gray) McNamara of Michigan; 16 grandchildren; 22 great-grandchildren; and 3 great-great-grandchildren. He is also survived by many extended family members and cherished friends.
He was preceded in death by his wife Monetta, his parents; daughters, Beth Annette Gray and Debra (Gray) McCain; sisters, Patsy (Gray) McClure and Norma Gray; brothers, Kenneth Gray and twin brothers Jerry and Larry Gray.
Joe will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him—but we take comfort in knowing he is joyfully reunited with his beloved Monetta and resting in the presence of the Lord he loved so faithfully. Services will be held on Sunday, August 3, 2025 at 2 PM at the Eastlund Funeral Home. Visitation will be 2 hours prior to the service, from noon until 2. Burial will immediately follow at the Syracuse Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to: Goshen Home Care & Hospice 1147 Professional Dr. Goshen, IN 46526. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.